The house looks very nice now.
We worked very hard yesterday and this morning sweeping, moping and scrubbing it.
Wish can share some pictures of the house now but my mother already warned me against it.
"Can you not show off everything to the world? It's very irritating whenever you do that," she said.
Okay lah, I write about something else today.
Don't feel like writing politics....honestly, I'm losing interest.
Anyway, there's too many negative thoughts in my brain when it comes to politics.
I'm afraid, if I put in writings what are in my political mind, it will only sounds bad for the establishment which I have been supporting all these years.
So, I rather keep it to myself.
It's bad enough already that even now there are people who branded me with all sorts of not so nice labels.
After a bit of thinking, I decided that for today, I want to give a bit of advice to other women about how to be likable....at least to men la.
Not that I'm an expert but I think I have some common sense on the subject matter.
Hey, maybe we can have some fun discussing it.
Or maybe it can help some women who can't figure out why men shied away from them, do something about it...hahaha.
Let me put it in five simple points to make the whole thing easy to follow,
1. Be nice
All men like nice women. This goes without exception. Even when they said they prefer badass women, actually what they really meant was that they prefer nice women who occasionally behave like a badass just to spice things up a bit. End of the day, they still prefer women who are nice to them. That's why I tried my best to be nice...most of the time :-)
2. Don't be over bitchy
All women have a streak of bitchiness. It's women's nature. I have it too. But don't over do it. Exercise control, okay. Otherwise, what started as an ego thing may ends up being a habit. Men don't like a bitch. It's as simple as that. For instance, if we are jealous of another woman because she is more popular among men, don't la make it so obvious when badmouthing her. Men are scared (or repulsed) of women who display such behavior.
3. Try to be reasonably intelligent
Men actually like smart women. So try to be one. However, I need to caution the ladies that men also have very big ego. If you are smart, don't make the men feel stupid by trying to compete your knowledge with theirs all the time. They would not like you if you do that. Be moderate and diplomatic when you showcase your intelligence. Unless you are actually a hopelessly egoistical bitch who wants to win every argument even when you know that you are in the wrong. In that case you are doomed not to be liked by men.....and in fact women too, forever.
4. Have a pleasant appearance
Not all women are born beautiful, but we should make a reasonable effort to look good. If we are fat, try dieting and exercise. It will make us look better and improve our health too. Men like a healthy looking woman. Then there's the matter of what to wear. Invest a bit on reasonably priced clothes. Let's say you are a Chinese girl who is trying to win the heart of Malays or just Malay men by appearing in public in baju kurung. I suggest you buy a few and wear them alternately. Don't wear the same black and white baju kurung all the time as people will notice and think that you are either too stingy or just simply a bum. Also, do comb your hair and apply a bit of make up if that's not too much an effort for you.
5. Be hygienic
Men don't like smelly women. Really, I'm not exaggerating. Even if you look like a super model, men will not like you if you smell bad. Worse if you are....not so pretty. Here, perfume won't really help. Instead you should try to acquire hygienic habits. Please showers....at least in the morning and evening. Brush your teeth too. A mouth wash would be great. Bad breath is a major turn off, okay. After you do your business in the toilet....try not to just use the toilet paper. Wash a bit la if possible. It's so much better at reducing the possibility of you smelling like....err not so nice. Oh, in case you are an animal lover and let your pet such as a dog in the house, please be even more hygienic. Otherwise you may smell like your pet. That won't help you to be liked by men....or even women, I think.
Okay, I think that is quite a reasonable guide for a woman to be more likable to men.
Just basic stuff la that one.
I am trying to observe those five points myself.
Hope it helps you all ladies.
Well, need to get off now. I'm cooking dinner for this evening.
Maybe I will write about it later :-)