Saturday, 6 August 2016

A birthday and remembering a beautiful place

I'm now at a resort somewhere in Pahang.

Almost the whole of my mother's side of the family is here.

We are celebrating my grandfather's birthday.

My mother's family is very particular about  these sorts of things.

They put a lot of importance in respecting their elders.

It's part of the Chinese culture and my mother's family is still a very traditional one at that.

Back then, when my great-grandmother was still alive, everyone, including those from Singapore would do their best to go back to Kluang to celebrate her birthday.

It was like a mini family reunion.

And when my great-grandmother passed away at the age of 108 seven years ago, we all mourned and at the same time celebrated her life.

As for my grandfather, he is still very healthy and active for his advanced age.

The guy is quite grumpy, but I love him anyway.

Old men tend to be like that lah.

We just tolerate them.

One day, we will be old like them too (that is if we don't die prematurely), and I believe we also want our young ones to treat us the same.

That's why we must take care of our elders and not hurt their feelings too much.

We wouldn't know how much longer they will be on this earth.

If we treat them badly, we may regret it when they are no longer around.

Just because they said or do things that hurt our feelings, we should not be harsh on them.

Try to remember the good things they had done for us when we were young.

Please be patient with them when they are grumpy or throw tantrums.

I'm quite sure you all will not regret it later on.

Keep that in mind, okay.

Anyway, this resort is not so bad.

Very nice and peaceful.

We are having quite a fun time here.

I wish I can post some pictures, but of course I can't.

Instead, I'm putting here a video of a place that I love so much.

It's a very nice half hour documentary by NHK,


I had posted another video of the place here,

Friday, 5 August 2016

Origin of the fight

Going off for a long distance trip in a short while.

Just want to respond to a request by a new friend who asked me to explain about the "fight" I'm having with another blogger.

The guy just started reading this blog and wanted to know what the nonsense is all about.

Actually, it's not even a fight.

Just me tolerating someone crazy.

 At least that's how I see it.

Been half a year since it started.

Let me put up this video clip again so that everyone remembers how it begins,


Yup, it started almost exactly like that.

Well, at least the crazy Batman became sane again at the end of the clip and okay to drinking coffee with Superman again.

In my case, the other person just continues being crazy.

Nothing much I can do about that, ya.

Okay, I need to go off now.

Have a great weekend everyone.

Cheers.

p.s Actually, I'm more like Spiderman. Anonymous, friendly, fun and not a glamour or glory seeker :)

Thursday, 4 August 2016

An asam pedas lunch and some sorts of sate dinner

Yesterday was an exceptionally nice day for me.

A friend, who is a very prominent pro-Najib blogger invited me for lunch in the morning.

Told him I didn't feel like going out because the air conditioning of my car went kaput the previous evening.

I didn't feel like getting trapped in the afternoon traffic jam in a car without air conditioning.

But my friend offered to help by guiding me to a car accessories shop that he knows which will give me special deal to fix the problem.

After that we went for lunch and were joined by another very prominent pro-Najib blogger and a young, rich and handsome Chinese guy.

We had an asam pedas lunch.


It was all very pleasant.

Well, of course I can't tell you all exactly what we discussed but suffice to say that if a certain person knows what it was all about, she would had flipped in anger and rage of jealousy and probably died of a heart attack too :)

Eh, no need to go into that, okay.

I'm trying to be nice these days.

Anyway, I wish I can have lunch like that with my friends from the Dr Mahathir's camp too.

Honestly, I miss them.

I know that they were weary of me because I choose to be neutral rather then siding with them.

I understand why they feel that way about me and therefore I don't want to disturb them.

Whatever it is, I still consider them as my friends and hope we can hang out together again someday after all these fightings are over.

Later in the evening, I had some sorts of a nice sate dinner with another gang of friends.


Two foreign guys and a very beautiful Chinese girl.

We talked about a lot of things including politics.

My foreign friends think that BN may seems to be in trouble now, but it will pull through the next general election.

"As long as your government can keep the economy going and the people do not suffer directly from its policies, BN will win again," said one of them.

"And they are doing exactly that."

The guy actually spent some time in Sungai Besar during the recent by-election and made quite an interesting observation.

"I was at one of the Amanah ceramah in Sekinchan and there was Tony Pua (of DAP) on stage talking about the 1MDB issue. I noticed that the crowd looking bored and not understanding what he was talking about," he said.

He then went on about how and why the 1MDB issue will not have much impact among the ordinary people.

"It's too complicated and as long as the people don't directly feel that anyone is taking money out of their pocket, they will not be too concerned.

"And on top of all that, the opposition parties are tearing themselves apart. It's beyond me how they are going into the next general election with any hope of defeating BN."

My other foreign friend was of the same opinion.

But he also offered some consolation words.

"You all Malaysians complain quite a bit, but, don't you know that people in other parts of the world are complaining too?" he asked.

The guy travels a lot because of his work.

"People in Cambodia complain about things in their country, so do people in Sri Lanka, Vietnam, etc. People in Singapore also complain about how things are down there.

"And you know what? People in New York, London and Tokyo are also complaining about things in their country.

'So, after everyone had done complaining, where should they go to?

"It's the same everywhere.

'Actually your country is not so bad,' he said.

I nonetheless cautioned the guys that BN is still at risk and should not get too cocky.

'If they get too cocky, they will do stupid things. That happened a lot with Umno people. And once they get stupid, the people can get so angry with them up to a point where the people don't care anymore about anything except that they just want to vote Umno and BN out."

That was what happened during the runs up to last two general elections.

BN was shaken quite a lot because of that.

The key words are "cocky" and "stupid".

Then the very beautiful Chinese lady suddenly spoke,

"I think my mom is siding with Umno," she said.

"Why you say that?" I asked, quite surprised.

I always thought that she and her whole family are supporting DAP.

She gave me an answer which really made sense.

I wish I can write exactly what she said about the whole thing here but I know that she will kill me if she reads it.

Her elderly mother who mostly lives in Singapore had actually been going around telling everyone about how good is Malaysia and its government.

You all simply have to trust me on this one - not all Chinese are supporting DAP or hate BN.

If you are a Malay, please don't believe anyone who comes to you and says, "Ini Cina semua jahat mau ambik hak Melayu. Saya tau sebab saya Cina."

Those are hatemongers whom I suspect were trying to turn Malays into crazy racists so that the world will later on turn around and condemn them for that.

Malays should ignore those bad people.

Hopefully they will, okay.

Tuesday, 2 August 2016

Living and dying

Received news that a friend was dying of cancer last night.

I felt a deep sense of sadness but was not very sure how to react.

In the end, I just prayed something like this;

"Dear Allah, please make it easy for my friend. He is not a Muslim but please don't make him go to hell just because of that. He is a good guy despite that."

I admit that I'm not an Islamic religious expert and not sure if it was okay for me to recite such a doa.

The highest formal Islamic education that I had was when I studied up to Darjah Lima at a Sekolah Agama Johor.

That was when I was still in primary school.

But really, I don't want my friend to go to hell.

He is a Chinese and I believe that he doesn't have a religion.

The religious teachers told me that all non-Muslims go to hell after they died, but I find it hard to accept that because my friend is a good guy and never really harmed anyone.

I think I even sinned more than him, okay.

I really hope Allah will be merciful with him.

The last time I was at the deathbed of someone was about three years ago.

My uncle was at that time dying of cancer too.

I remember hugging him for a long while as he lay on the hospital bed.

At that time I whispered to him something like this to comfort him,

"Please don't worry about anything. Just remember Allah and pray to Him. Everyone loves you. See, we are all here with you. You are a good person and there's nothing for you to worry."

My uncle then recited the AlFatihah in a whisper and thanked me.

That's the last time I was with him.


Actually, I'm writing this to remind myself more than anyone else that life is short and that I should not waste it on unnecessary things despite them seemingly being so important at the moment.

One day, maybe not too long from now, I will die too.

I wish that when it's time for me to go, I will have a clear conscience on how I conducted myself on this earth and that my life is filled with love more than anything else.

I don't want to die while still hating someone or possessing things that rightly belongs to someone else or something like those.

Hopefully Allah will be merciful with me and allows me to have that.

I don't know about you all, but that's how I wish it will be for myself.

Okay lah, enough of me pouring my heart out.

Sorry, if any of you thinks it's a waste of time reading this post.

Take care and have a nice day, okay.

Sunday, 31 July 2016

Relax and ignore the hatemongers (updated)

UPDATES

Chit chatted with a friend just now.

The guy, who is a prominent blogger was complaining about being slandered as a supporter of this and that.

Poor fella.

But then he forwarded me this
and said that's all how he is going to react to all the nastiness.

Very nice.

I think I will try to be like my friend and do likewise.

Fight hate with love.

That's the best.


ORIGINAL POST

Another sleepless early Sunday morning.

It's now past 3.30 am as I start writing this.

Well, I think I'll go to the beach later at day break to see the sunrise.

Not been doing that for a long time.

I love sunrises.

Ya, I'm somewhere near a beach now

Been a restful weekend so far despite a little work which I took home to finish.

Thanks to Allah that I can afford this relaxing time.

Of course, thanks to my boss too for hiring me, so that I have the money to afford this relaxing time.

Previously, I can't really afford such a luxury.

Always been busy and stressed.

Nowadays I can relax a bit more.

Better quality of life.

At least that's something positive, right?

We can't be negative all the time.

Really. No need to fight all the time.

Hate, hate, hate....

You can get hernia like that....or become bloated with....ego?

That's not good okay.

Relax a bit, take it easy, fall in love....etc.

Melayu lah sikit.

Melayu always relax a bit, take it easy, fall in love....etc.

Be cool :)

Eh, I'm really just rambling here.

Writing whatever that crosses my mind.

Which is nothing really.

Sorry ya.

But really. Relax la you all.

Be at peace.

Make peace.

Not war....not hate

Eh, here's a nice song as compensation for your time reading my early morning rambling today,


Sorry ya, I don't actually know what the song is really all about.

I just know that the singer is that famous Sayuri Ishikawa.

Still, it just sounds nice to me.

Very retro and soothing.

I hope you all like it too.

Well, I also hope you all have a good Sunday.

Really.

Take it easy.

Don't think too much.

Just ignore the hatemongers.

They just cari makan, okay.

Let them be.

They actually can't harm us as long as we pay them no attention.

Cheers.

Friday, 29 July 2016

Muslims must not become haters of Christians

When an airhead bimbo in France called for a Christian crusade against Islam, how are Muslims in Malaysia should react?

Should they respond by declaring jihad on the Christians in this country?

I don't think they should.

You can read about that desperate to be popular female bigot at Rocky's post,

A call for Crusade in France


Good Muslims in this country should just be who they are - good Muslims.

And being good Muslims, they should refrain from hating others who are not of the same faith as them.

That has been the way with most Muslims in this country.

They are good people who are willing to share this country with others, and for that they and this country are blessed by Allah.


Just look at how prosperous and relatively peaceful this country has been.

Even if the others allegedly do things which the Muslims don't like, they should leave it to the authorities to handle things.

They should not listen to all the goading to hate the Christians, or anyone else by people with vested interest or personal vendetta.

"Umat Islam di Malaysia perlu bersatu untuk menghadapi ancaman orang Kristian yang memusuhi Islam," said those bad people.

Muslims, please don't listen to those people.

Those who said that sorts of things are actually trying to manipulate the Muslims because they are the majority in this country.

They want the Muslims to use their majority power to suppress the minority Christians for their own personal interest or satisfaction.

Yes, there are bad Christians, but there are also bad Muslims. Please always bear that in mind.

We should be against bad people because they are bad, not because they are Christians or Muslims.

I'm of the opinion that those who called for Muslims in this country to hate their Christian fellow Malaysians are actually trying to cause Muslims to be further vilified by the world.

They want Muslims to act aggressively or even violently against the Christians so that later on they could be blamed when this country goes up in sectarian flame.

Muslim majority persecuting minority Christians in Malaysia - they want that to be the headlines across the world.

I believe when that happened, those people who are now trying to instigate the Muslims to hate the Christians in this country will turn around (again) and blame the Muslims themselves for the mess.

Do check the background of those bad people to know why they are calling for the Muslims to hate Christians in this country.

That's why I made these suggestion in my previous post,


excerpts :

If there are people telling you all to hate Christians or people of any religion for that matter, ask them back for their motives.

You can ask them something like this - "Are you really trying to protect Islam and our akidah (faith) or are you actually trying to make us hate Christians because you yourself hate them and want everyone to hate along with you?"

Or you can ask them something like this - "Are you telling us Muslims to hate Christians because your ex-boyfriend who is a devout Christian treated you very badly before he dumped you?"


Thursday, 28 July 2016

Malaysians actually care about loving one another

An anonymous wrote this 

haha.. would you post your 'viewed graph' for this posting?
today people are love-hate driven motif.

just one song for your article.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z5xZ4gFwGGk&spfreload=10


but nice social studies. :)

at my post 

I guess the anon was wondering whether readers of this blog care to read about the feel good stuff and love messages that I wrote.

I did that posting along with this one yesterday,


It's about the need for us not to hate, which is in a way promoting feel good and love stuff too.

So, okay, I obliged.

This is the cropped screenshot from this blog's stats counter page which I took just now,


The number of pageviews yesterday is in the red circle - 4,867.

For comparison, I wrote three posts related to the US Department of Justice's civil suits on July 21 and the total number of pageviews on that day is 4,768. Also, on the day I wrote a single posting about Marina Mahathir and her armpits which was on July 25, the number of pageviews of this blog is 4,433.

You can check that out in this post,


Based on that, I have to conclude that readers of this blog and likely Malaysians in general do want to feel good and love each other.

That's good okay.

Well, maybe peddling hate can get this blog an even higher number of pageviews but I don't feel like doing that.

Instigating racial and religious hate do sell, but it's bad.

If others want to do that and then later boast that their blog have millions and millions of pageviews, let them do that lah.

I'm done with that sorts of things.

I think Malaysians want to read nice things for a change.

I have that much faith in them.

Of course a lot of them also like reading about armpits and stuff, but that's just human nature, okay.

I think we need to be more positive.

Try to be cool with each other.

That's the best.

We are after all not so bad as a people.