And as usual he asked me out after work.
I don't really feel like to layan him, but he was persistent, saying that he hasn't seen me for almost two months.
So, okay lah. After work I drove to a mall where he was to pick me up.
From there he took me to this nice Japanese restaurant not far from the mall.
He ordered all sorts of sushi stuff while I asked for a sukiyaki set.
This guy is quite well off. A handsome single middle class Chinese guy living in an apartment I believe worth about RM1 million.
He even has a bottle of expensive sake kept at the restaurant.
And as usual, I let him do all the talking.
Of course the main topic of the night was the GE13. It is apparently still "hot".
He is a DAP supporter (all of them are these days), but he knows that I am, despite my Chinese looks is unfashionably partial to BN. So, I noticed that he tried very hard not to offend me.
He explained how DAP people actually meant well for the country and that they are not the enemies of the Malays. That they just want the country to be better managed and be cleansed from corruption.
He also expressed regret that almost all of the Umno moderate leaders were wiped out in GE13. He said it can't be helped as these good Umno leaders were placed at marginal seats with high percentage of Chinese voters who had made up their mind to reject BN.
He said it would be great if the good Umno people could unite with DAP people to rule the country.
"Honestly, we don't really like the Pas and PKR people, but we got no choice," he said, adding that he doesn't agree with the Black 505 campaign against the election results which was propagated by DS Anwar Ibrahim.
"It makes us all look like sore losers," he added.
At that moment I interjected and said something like this,
"Please tell your DAP friends not to tire themselves with all that Anwar's crap. Tell them to be patient.
"Anwar is using all of you for such nonsense because his time is running out. He needs to be a PM now as five years till the next general election, he will be totally irrelevant as new leaders will be emerging in Pakatan and they will push him to the side.
"He will be a Pakatan's liability at the next general election. Bear in mind that the majority of the rakyat, especially the fence sitters are getting fed-up with his antics.
"You all Chinese, don't have to be sucked in into all those nonsense. All your community need to do is to keep the current momentum and vote in block for DAP and its allies like what you all did in GE13.
"I am quite sure Pakatan will take over the federal government in the next general election if you all managed to do that. There will be no way the Malays are able to unite to counter your Chinese block. They are too weak and stupid to do that.
"And if the Chinese community can further keep themselves together that way for another general election 10 years from now, I can guarantee you that they will be able to take over the running of the country from the useless Malays."
He was in turn quiet as I said all that.
He is a smart guy and he knows that I am telling the truth.
Later before he dropped me off at my car at the mall, he reached out and hold my hand for a few seconds.
I don't know why, but I just let him did that.
Tomorrow, I need to wake up and remind myself again that I'm a Malay racist. I must not let that Chinese guy touch me again. I guess I need to be reminded of that all the time.
Really, I'm quite useless as a racist.
Okay, I need to sleep now.
Good night.
Malays useless? thanks Annie...:(
ReplyDeleteRead carefully and understand what I'm trying to convey, be strong and don't be sad.
DeleteI understand what you are trying to say. Sometime we Malays do need to telan and admit it .... Malays useless ... we need to change and to change totally and i'm going for that now for the betterment of my kids future as Malays who can survive in this world globally.
DeleteThanks Annie .... i met your blog while surfing thru the net a few days before election and your blog now is one of the blogs that i will read everyday ... thanks Annie and take care
Fazilah
I pun nak pegang tangan you..hehe.oklah.,.you look chinese but with a Malay man you will get rid of the sepet eyes in the next generation and be more exotic.
DeleteThe thing about wealth its all begin with exploitation. Even if you consider Iphone success, the Chinese paid with their lives to produce it. Oil palm billionaires produced by slave workers. So there is nothing humanistically value should be added to wealth beyond a sport car/condo. Which is superficial anyway.
Dont worry about the Malays. We are now on the upswing. Just look at UMNO 100% Malay votes. The Malays are just recovering post Tamil leadership.
More and more Malays are questioning the Tamil exhortation that Malays be given 20% wealth of their own country. A judge said it should be 67%. Azizan said housing should be 70%. Which is fair. Equitable ownership. The migrants Chinese should be happy with 30% but no, because his father is a migrant himself, he put himself on the other side.
The block voting in fact is a blessing. Because now corrupt UMNO leaders cannot justify giving billion of contracts and licenses and concessions to the Chinese. They will simply vote out UMNO at the next election.
Malays need to band together in NGO just pre UMNO as the concentration of power in UMNO is not good or wise. More heads are better than one and the ex Judges or Muftis input or Vice Chancellors are indicative of it.
What a make up story usual kaya cina bloke telling the usual stuff subtly to incite racial thoughts. Everyone can write the same style - Rich BN guy - rent seek - use to shop overseas drive a fast AP car pertuate Ketuanan blah blah blah
DeleteThe Chinese were dirt poor when they came in their tongkangs like the Myanmar today. Then they ruthlessly scrimp and save to make their money and now they have more than they need. But wait, they are still second class in Malaysia haha...
DeleteThe Malays with their quiet dignity still rules supreme in their land and the sons and daughters of poor migrants from China and India suddenly realised they have to go elsewhere.
where they can pretend to be 1st class. Anywhere but China their homeland.
That explain their hatred of envy Malays. And the best for them is yet to migrate again.
Due to incompetence education minister, these migrants youth have no concept of Tanah Melayu, the King, the loyalty to the flag. They thought its an empty land. But its not.ITs the land of the Malays. Take it or leave Malaysia.
getting tired of listening to rants like malays are a bunch of corrupt beings.. yang offer bawah table tu siapa? yang dapat contract besar besar tu siapa? just a bunch of hypocrites.. u wanna stop corruption.. then stop offering also lah..
ReplyDeleteYes, many malay leaders are corrupt, it is obvious to see, be it in UMNO, PKR or even PAS.
DeleteSince most malay penjawat awam and corporate executive are becoming religious, god fearing, they are no longer on the take. Hence, these leaders have to resort to chinese (and indians too) to facilitate their devious scheme.
Just look closely at all malay leaders'circle of close friends and confidant, , you will see many of these non-malay bedfellows.
Annie,
ReplyDeleteVery good reverse psychology...the Chineses have shown all their cards...the intention is clear...wait for all the Malays and Bumi cards GE 14..
I like. Cakap banyak tak guna. Ditakdirkan Melayu sendiri still nak split, then it was meant to be. Tapi agi idup agi ngelaban la kan.
DeleteWhy Annie did not BCL? So here, she write bad but behind us, she will do anything. I think she vote DAP LKS.
DeleteHe touched your hand?
ReplyDeleteBatal air sembahyang tu!
Mungkin kena samak!
Janganlah sampai macam tu sekali. Janganlah menunjukkan awak tu mulia sangat. Apa ke hal nak samak nya ... Don't listen to him Annie ... believe me ...batal air sembahyang tu memang tapi adakah sepanjang masa kita ni ada air sembahyang. Mengeluarkan statement yang memalukan diri sendiri sebagai orang Islam.
DeleteFazilah
Tak semestinya batal air sembahyang. Tengok mazhab la. Kat Malaysia je. Mazhab lain selamba je.
DeleteAnnie. you are right. Kebangsaan terlampau ni letih. Kita cuba moderate tapi jangan bagi orang ambik hak kita. Pemimpin UMNO mintak tolong bersihkan diri boleh tak? Sudah sudah la tuh.
....I'm a Malay racist. I must not let that Chinese guy touch me again..
Deletekah..kah..kah... oh baby don't touch me again okay, I'm a Malay racist yg nak jual mahal !!
Crude dia nih ... :)) biarkan ...
DeleteAlamak, no chance lah nak mengurat Annie :)
ReplyDeleteCDR
Annie ni mesti cun. Cina DAP pun nak ayat dia walaupun "50% bodoh/pemalas".
DeleteIt is sad that the Chinese perception of the Malay s intellectual level has stoop to this low.Please tell them that if they think that they can dupe the malays,it would have happen a long time ago.Kit siang has been trying this all the while.This time round DAP manage to win is just because of Anwar.The Malays will eventually get rid of Anwar as to us he is nothing but a traitor to this wonderful country.and DAP is no better.Unfortunately they have dragged the along the Chinese community.
ReplyDeleteThis kind of mindset has push even the moderate Malays to be anti Chinese.Kit siang and group think they have outsmarted the Malays.But tell yr friend to think and look at what has really happened.but then I sometimes do not blame the Chinese for thinking that we arebreally stupid with malays like Nazri opening his mouth.
Melayu "moderates" easily more than 7 million. mengundi, tak mengundi, tak berdaftar.
DeleteBravo Annie. I'm sure that guy have a cat caught his tongue when you said that. Probably he thought that the Malays don't know the hidden facts or their true intention. And for the Red Army Bean, remember what our Agong (Sultan Kedah) said before. If the Sultanate of Kedah want Penang back, the Federation must give based on the historic agreement with the British. So will there be a KM or there will be a MB? Guess all the Penang Cina will be freaking out if that happen eh?
ReplyDeleteIt would be awesome to see that happen, badtamperman. Baru la tau langit tu tinggi rendah, ya tidak?
Deletenon muslim pegang muslim tak kena samak. mereka bukan najis, apa yg mereka makan dan pegang x payah selidik..yg haram ialah sentuh bukan muhrim tu..tapi annie belum sampai seru lagi utk menjauhi tu kut..
ReplyDeleteBoleh sentuh tak boleh sentuh pun ada khilaf ulamak. Annie no need to sampai seru.
DeleteBila budak budak melayu KAFA boleh mengundi, hopefully Islamist yang moderates yang memerintah.
i think she like you annie...most man will start with the hand touch first..and i agree you should remind yourself next time not to let him touch you..just for safety precaution..after all he is a DAPster ahahah..cant trust them totally.
ReplyDeleteaiyoo it's a HE..oops typo
DeleteJangan terpedaya Annie. Kalau ikut buku rules of the game. Dia nak KINO kan you tu, bukan boleh percaya. Stay strong:))
DeleteHu Hu Hu ... why nobody want to talk share market, science, management, business, maths with me ! Oh well ... short term everything is like voting machine. The most popular topic regardless of useless-fullness will beat others important things. That's life. But hey ... at least not my life. WAKE-UP guys and gals ! 5 years from now, u look back on how much time and energy wasted on this politic nonsense lor. Bila mau MAJU ni ? Adoyai !
ReplyDeleteLeno.
Only chinaman talk market, share, business.
DeleteOnly university lecturers talk maths, science, etc
You know what's common about them?
They all support Pakaton
So, you are a Pakatan red bean!
QED
politics ni macam tengok bola la ... awal pagi pun tengok lagi. Entertainment factor.
DeleteBut seriously Anwar ni memang genius...bodoh tapi genius. So much drama macam soap General Hospital la pulak ...tak habis habis.
Bigotry is the state of mind of a bigot: someone who, as a result of their prejudices, treats other people with hatred, contempt, and intolerance on the basis of a person’s race, gender, sexual orientation, gender identity, national origin, religion, language, socioeconomic status, or other status BE SINCERE AND HONEST. LET OUR CHILDREN GROW UP AND BE EDUCATED TOGETHER UNDER ONE SCHOOL SYSTEM. IF YOU PROTEST, THEN ADMIT THAT YOU ARE RACIST BY INSISTING TO HAVE SCHOOLS FOR YOUR RACE. CHALLENGE THIS
DeleteYep Leno, politic is the hot thing right now, and soon it will be mellowed down and life as usual. But will it? We will see a lot of enforcement by the authorities especially for Islamic organisation. You soon will see prohibition of selling alcohol in stores or 24 hours shoplots, strict actions at those kuda gambling shop, high summons for those shop that did not display genuine JAKIM HALAL logo and so on. Yeah! Time to payback. And those China Dolls (GRO,PR or whatsoever) will be sending back probably they are also pengundi hantu. Do we care what Cina wants? Nope, coz you don't care.
ReplyDeleteJangan macam tu bang. We care but we need to be firm.
Delete"Be with someone who brings out the best in you, not the stress in you."
ReplyDeleteAnnie is part Malay and part Chinese...so she understands the races' psyche. The cross winds of stereotypical political thoughts disturbed her, and caused her to take a side. She does not play mind games. And she's honest, especially to herself. She really hopes the situation in our country will get better...
ReplyDeleteHow to be better when trying to turn into South Africa of SE Asia.
DeleteEverybody likes Annie ..... boleh buat sitcom nih
DeleteSouth africe is better than being a malay in singapore...minority yg hilang hak utk membantah dan membuat haluan sendiri..nak tak nak makan hati je dengn spesis spt amy cheong dan jason neo..i'm sure you're just like them.
DeleteAnnie, he likes you! Marry him, Annie! :D
ReplyDeleteIf he read your blog then ok Annie, he likes your mind. Unless you are fine being a trophy wife to a DAPster - sanggup ke:)
DeleteLater Annie you ketuk him belanja you Nasi padang. If he survives it and finish the meal then you can be sure he IS the one for you. Tak kisah lah if he Dap lover, once kena the daging salai and dendeng sure layu one.
DeleteOnce he's yours, for sure can psycho him pangkah BN. How? Good idea?
A marriage is base on trust. Can Annie trust him?
ReplyDeletethe answer is a CANNOT dude !! .... because he is a DAP/PR supporter !
DeleteAnnie can only trust or marry ahli UMNO and particularly coming from gelang patah branch.
Biasa macam sya, kawan Cina jemput dinner... sebenarnya mereka ni nak pancing gossip2 dari kamu. Eg you cerita pi dating dgn DSN kat kopitiam makan roti bakar dan minum kopi Ipoh bersama... dia akan terbalik cerita kat kawan2 yg DIA had tea with DSN..
ReplyDeleteBanyak kali sya dah pasang perangkap nak tengok perangai mereka ni semua...
As my job requires mingle around with many races, the one that I notice that Malaysian Cina like to spend time at "rumah urut", having mistress, drinking. Remember one of them told me that he always have a similiar brand of soap at home so his wife will not suspect if he went to spa urut2. Notice how smart they are?
ReplyDeleteWhat do you expect boys and men? You want men always to be with men - gays? Just look at Bahrain . Those from Saudi will stream across the causeway to bahrain to enjoy. Why can have more than 1 wife?
DeleteKena sabar saja lah, Annie.
ReplyDelete*hugs*
mmh it's obvious he like you annie...ok politic aside i can sense that he pretty much give you a good impression..yeah at first don't likelah..but he is "persistent"..and somehow you layan jugak then he reached out and hold your hand for a few second..and you don't know why?...simplelah annie he's being a gentlemen and of course women like to be treated well like that..it's a spontaneous gesture that show you kinda like it and appreciate his effort...and finally you said you need to remind yourself not let him touch you again..you need to? sure or not? may be you just need to let it be and go with the flow if it's work it's work if not life goes on
ReplyDeleteand yeah annie i agree you're a "useless" racist..and that's when "politic aside"..i don't need to tell you about politic because it's obvious you're with BN. i know it's hard sometimes to be around with this people..my wife is all PKR and i'm UMNO but yeah i love my wife not he's political views.
Been there and done it....I don't have a chinese blood on my body but I look like chinese. I even fairer than most of them. Before my married, I have a few chinese boyfriends and come to think of it a few of Indians. My husband know this as he is my bestfriends at that time. Heck we know each other boyfriends/girlfriends. it a jokes to us, who's wooing who's.
ReplyDeleteKnow how your're filling right now Annie. Couple of years down the road, you will look back and than you can make up your mind who he is in your lifes. Trust you judgement.
:D sarah
Annie's mum is chinese and support Sinkapore. Is that wrong to marry someone of different race? Annie can marry a chinese and member of DAP if she has some of the qualities of her mother. Instead she has qaulities of Mugabe.
Deletepoyolah ini anon 18:39..mugabe kepale hotak mu..lebih baik dr ada kualiti lim kit siang bapak segala rasis hipokrit..mcm ko mengat org je lebih..mcmlah dorang u bagus
DeleteU want to own business but has no money, no experience, or too lazy to manage it ? There is where share market come into play and in our life. U cannot simply open up a bank, but u can become part owner of that bank by simply own some shares. U can become part owner of petronas, public bank, kfc, nestle, dutch lady, the star, astro, gamuda, and hundreds of other companies. And instead of quarelling about umno or pkr, cina or melayu, gardenia or massimo, liverpool or chelsea .. we can start cheering and promoting our company instead. Ada BETOii ciakap saya tak ?
ReplyDeleteLeno.
That's the argument but not as simplistic as that - other forces in play. information to play the market - what if you buy on all time high then jatuh? 5 years to recover. Letak dalam ASB, AS Didik, ASM je, safe.
DeleteBTW, European stocks good buys now - it can only go up. US stocks on a breakout run - good buy also. ASEAN stocks as well except for Singapore, me think.
want be the richest unemployed man like KJ or Anwar? Join politics. Just jual air liur je beb.
DeleteGood reverse psychology Annie. I noticed that I'm doing the same too with hardcore Pakatoons.
ReplyDeleteLet them think that we Malays are not doing anything.. since they think that we are stupid and lazy anyway.
Dealing dengan Cina, mulut kita mesti manis.. Semanis mulut mereka. Tak payah gaduh depan2. Buang tenaga je.. Just hit where it hurts - their pockets.
Setuju. Juga, UMNO yang bersih akan selesaikan semua permasaalahan ni dengan sendirinya. Jangan harapkan sangat undi cina. Biar diorang datang sendiri.
DeleteAnnie Annie
ReplyDeleteYa Papa
Eating Sugar?
No Papa
Telling Lies?
No Papa
Open Your Mouth!
Ha Ha Ha
Apa ni? Tak faham.
DeleteNak mengata Annie dalam blog Annie ke?
Bila umum Equity Melayu 18% .. bukan main melatah lagi. Tapi bila ajak beli share ... macam chicken eat chalk plak dah. Cepat beli PMCORP 15.5 sen ! Ini lah masa untuk naik-kan statistik equiti Melayu ke 18.0001 % ! Melayu Boleh ! Leno Boleh ! Annie pun Boleh !
ReplyDeleteLeno.
Ko ni makan kapur banyak sangat.
DeleteI'm like you, am really frustrated with the Malay, especially with the PKR and PAS bugger that's really x sedar di untung. They are they one who permits Malay (especially government workers) to be called lazy and stupid and most of them time this same people are working with the governments.
ReplyDeleteI'm proud to be Malay.. This Beautiful Malaysia has been modernized by the Malay goverment. I'm proud to say that the government workers has work hard to make sure Malaysia to be what it is now. Petronas has been successfully transformed into a O&G giant by the Malays. And the Malay, with all their laid back attitude, have made Malaysia safe and prosperous for all.
Why the Chinese failed to acknowledge this?.. it is just because they are to greedy to have everything, more than what they already have.
All the allegation and accusation to the Malay is just to create rasa rendah diri for the Malays. And the best thing is the Malay in Pakatoon believed in it and spread the hates to others.
They have never able to prove all the allegations of corruption and what not.. Its all just allegations. I really believe we need ISA back to create a better Malaysia. i really missed the time when we dont have this much hate for each other.
The malay who turned to PKR are frustrated lot who can't get what they desire, whether in the public service or in business.
DeleteThese are opportunist who would sold their grandmother, if that is what required to get even.
They are the real losers, the retired lot who talked big at kedai mamak, every morning. When others are busy, they got nothing to do.
ahhh ..those days.
DeleteI was with PETRONAS dulu - bangga. Tak rasa pun issue racism / underperformance etc nih - all over the world dealings with foreigners - mat salleh / jepun ok je, diorang pun respect tengok budak - budak petronas boleh berunding ngan diorang yang dah seasoned ....... keluar PETRONAS masuk private sector, culture shock kejap .... the battle should also be fought in the private sector .... Malaysian Malaysia in private sector ... boleh ?!?
Many enforcement Officers loves cari makan in Petaling Street, Pasar Road and Star Hill.
DeleteAnnie, wah.... so popular and famous now. Even jottings about your dinner dates receive huge response...Go girl have some fun it will help ease the pain. The comments...senyum kambing aku sambil baca komen komen pengunjung sedia...Saya tumpang seronok je...boleh kan....
ReplyDeleteRelax Annie..you are lonely and need love, because past three weeks your inner anger building up terribly
ReplyDeleteTake Care Girl
Unker R
U know what share market have in common with politic ? There will be time of manic-depressive cycle where people start to behave irrationally. Call it Herd mentality or crowd psychology or follow the Lemming jumping over the cliff. U don't want to join them. But U also don't want to waste time trying to stop them. U bubuh tungkul kayu and cakap kat tungkul kayu lagi best. At least tungkul kayu wont call u lembu, keldai, zirafah, gajah or what ever. Just stand aside and let them jump. In share market, the bubble will deflate by itself or Burst and come down crashing. Then everything will be the same again ... or maybe not. It may get depressed .. oh well for a period then it will be okay back. This political non-sense or irrational behaviour of BOTH SIDE (BN AND PR) will come to their end by themselves. DO NOT GET SUCK INTO THEM. Instead join me to buy share or go have fun with NORMAL (apolitical) friends, or make new funny friends. HA HA HA ...
ReplyDeleteLeno.
True. Cuma bila irrational exuberance terlampau sampai tak logik ... Bursa should suspend the market.
DeleteEquivalent to polis to tangkap all these jokers yang melampau. Menteri KDN baru, please ok.
steady sis...di telan mati omak di luah mati bapak..me sino-malays support sis we are more ultra
ReplyDeleteyloostyloo
and one more sis..wa share lu nyer link dlm fb..gua kaw-kaw huhuhu
ReplyDeleteyloostyloo
Bro Leno, my background before was in the stockbroking industry and I know what type of investors they are. Like they say, Stockmarket is the barometer of economy of a country. Are you a remisier or a dealer's rep?.
ReplyDeleteKLCI at all time high.
DeleteChinaman mak a lot of money la.
Can blanja Annie lo.
Can give money to Unncle Lim too.
Things are getting hotter:
ReplyDeleteKUALA LUMPUR: Pro-Pakatan Rakyat groups have vowed to overthrow the Barisan Nasional government this year through a massive street rally.
Speakers at a forum held yesterday unanimously agreed that waiting for five years until the next general election was too long, and vowed to overthrow BN this year through “force”.
The street rally is rumoured to be as early as May 17 or 18 to overthrow BN and capture Putrajaya.
“We will take to the streets and take over Putrajaya. If we really want to overthrow them, there is no other way. Democracy does not work,” Haris Ibrahim from ABU (Anything But Umno) told the 1,500-strong crowd here.
“The people cannot wait anymore. We don’t want to wait another five years. We will take the streets,” he added
Talk is cheap. Pakatan don't have the balls to follow through. Dumb leader and moronic followers. I'm convinced PDRM is formulating something as we speak.
DeleteWe will be waiting, jangan disangka air yang tenang tiada buaya!
ReplyDeleteWay to go girl... stand up and be tactful... BTW are you the same as Jenice Lee. I suka le Jenice tu. Sweet and smart and humble.
ReplyDeleteU r one cool girl !! Keep on writing!!
ReplyDeleteInteresting about share market is i am playing with irrational behaviour of people all the time. Can u explain why ppl still want to buy stupid company that alreadi declared being caught for fraud accounting and definitely goin to bancrupt soon ? I warn them and get screw up. I ask them why .. and they give all the nonsense answer .. follow the trend lar, fibinici wave lar, cup and handle pattern-lar, tree no wind no goyang lar .. aiyoyo am mah ! On the opposite side, we have a solid company with net asset 46 sen, net cash 20 sen, good prospect .. yet ppl dunt even dare to buy at 10 sen ! Hahahahaha .... so, tunggu ape lagi. Wa pun wallap kaw-kaw. No wonder i retired young, now shaking legs, and can go jogging everi day.
ReplyDeleteLeno.
Dear Annie,
ReplyDeleteMaybe you shld go out for dinner with me. U can call me uncle or pakcik.for starters, BCL we will go to a malay restaurant and eat authentic malay food, not tomyam.u can talk all u want, politics, ur ideals, aspirations, ambitions. i m a good listener and while ur talking, i will be sketching ur portrait (and listening to u at the same time).
I admit that it's difficult to be a rascist,but in times like these when we can be deceived by DAP's deceitful malaysian malaysia concept, we have to be strong when charting our journey in life and what we want for our children, lest we will be non-existent in our own country.
My advise to u, keep on fighting and i do hope and pray one day, ur mum will drop her DAP stance.
Btw, the dinner offer is still on...
regards.
Annie. I like your blog. Thank you.
ReplyDeleteAnnie, My wife and I like your blog. Thanks :)
ReplyDeleteDear Annie,
ReplyDeleteThank you, you do know how to explain the Malay predicament, keep up the good work 😉